Am I trying to hard to get into this eventing team?

I ride at this really awesome barn and im good friends with everyone there. They have an eventing team that travels to shows and such in the spring summer and fall, and it has teenagers to middle aged people. I have been working very hard to make my horse into an eventer and its really paying off because hes becoming a dressage horse and hes getting used to the more contact. I was hoping i would get invited to be part of it maybe soon, because im good friends with the head person and shes seen how much ive been working and seeing his jumping really come into place. And a good friend of mine has a naturally gifted horse, it was like she was made for jumping and dressage! and she came over to the barn once to ride with me and she got an instant invitation into the eventing club. I wasnt suprised but i feel like the next person to get an invitation should have been me.. im not trying to impress people or anything im just training a lot to be an eventer and its been showing.. any good tips?